#SoPhi | “Men, Men, Men, Men. Men I Do Adore” by @ImDesi

by • July 27, 2012 • SoPhiComments (0)2057

“I love men, it’s always the same, I love men, I’m bad at the game, can’t defend the way that I feel, it’s no trend, the feeling is real.”

There’s so much negativity receiving energy. I choose to be the change I want to see so I want to take the time to shed light on the positive. Although positivity is more often than not overshadowed by the more entertaining ignorance that is heavily promoted, I have faith that my message will reach whoever needs it and at least help them get through today with a bit more ease.  I love men and I truly want them to live their best life. Here is my letter to them all:

Know that I love you. I appreciate you. Even though I am just a stranger, I know you may not hear that enough and you can never hear it too much. I look in your eyes, see your soul, and I understand that you have a lot on your plate. Let me take this opportunity to celebrate you. I am a firm believer of what you focus on expands, so for this moment at least, your “f*ck ups”, your mistakes, all your losses are erased. Because I know and I’m sure you do too, that you are more than whatever you have been through. Whether you have been in jail, in debt, unemployed, whatever it is, it can be overcome. These trials exist for you to prove to yourself and the world just how powerful you truly are. I’m sure at times you feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders because not only do you have to look out for you, but you have your mom, your dad, your family and friends who count on you. You are the providers, the link that holds things together. Don’t breakdown, a breakthrough is on the way. I need you. I cannot speak for every woman, but for what it’s worth, I believe in you. Whatever it is that you want to do in life, take it from me, you can make it happen. I want you to make it happen. I want you to do great things and inspire me to do the same because I need that energy to strengthen my own.

There is no need for me to call out your flaws, that’s been done enough and I’m sure you’re working on them. You’ve probably beat yourself up a million times. My wish is that in your times of feeling like you have failed, you are reminded of your immense potential to live the good life and given that extra push you need to pull through. The blood of our ancestors runs deep through your veins. I’m sure at times you are still feeling their pain but let’s not forget, these same ancestors were once kings. In your moments of pain, you still have my love because that is when you need it most. Just promise me that you’ll do better tomorrow. I am only one person but I’m sure there are other women who want you to win. You have the opportunity to become our generation’s heroes. Look back at your history and see all the possibilities of what you can be, what you can make out of this life of yours. I see it in you and I hope if you haven’t already, you start living it today. You are not alone, my words are with you every step of the way. Each day you step into the world on a quest to cultivate a better future for you and your children, remember what it’s all for and let that fuel the desire to do it again tomorrow.

It is my intention to help you live up to who you are without adding to the everyday burdens other external forces attempt to crush your spirit with. I want to do all I can to help you see you can live life limitlessly, abundantly. Let me. For now all I have are my words, accept them as a start. All the love you need to keep you strong will come to you. When two or more people come together and give time and energy toward the same vision, the world will change. Whatever endeavors that lead to the evolution of the brilliant man that is you, I support. Let today be the day you choose to only focus on those who know you can’t lose. Hopefully the first of those being the man in the mirror.


A yellow girl tryna change the world with your help.

Don’t Ever Say Impossible



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