One of the greatest challenges a man can ever conquer in life is the ability to control his dick. Many of todays men lack self control, which is related to and a prerequisite to obtaining Dick Control. A lack of dick control leads to making bad dick decisions and those can land ya ass on Maury. Years ago I created the Hazism “You Cant Fuck Em All” to try and get men to understand what dick control was all about. You see, a man is naturally designed to lust after and pursue multiple women. It’s in his DNA. Don’t let society tell you that you’re wrong for wishing you could fuck every girl in the world fellas. As a man you’re supposed to want every woman you find attractive, but a man should also be responsible enough to know that he can’t acquire everything he desires.
Now in many cases the modern man has been reduced to being defined by what he has in his pants and what he has in his pockets. Let that marinate for a minute. If you don’t agree, then take a second and imagine the life of a broke nigga with a little dick. Exactly. You see the problem is most men (especially us black men) don’t know who they are. They fall for this trap and begin to define themselves by these two things and end up only being good for a dollar and a dick. That’s what the modern man is socialized to believe he needs in order to get and satisfy a woman; (which is pretty much true with these hoes nowadays) which, in the end, equates to him being happy. The problem is in life, whatever you value is what you will be worth. Now I could let y’all hit this conspiracy kush and break that down much further but I don’t wanna lose anybody so I’ll keep it light for tonight. The point is men have become slaves to the pussy and it’s all because they lack Dick Control.
“Don’t be pussy whooped, whoop dat pussayyy”
Now the most obvious reason a man should understand that he can’t sleep with every woman that he can is clearly the threat of sexually transmitted diseases. People are getting fucked up left and right from having sex – the risk truly takes most of the fun out of the potential reward. Confused women are out here sleeping with closet homosexuals and don’t even know it allowing them to poison the pussy population which fucks it up for all of us. Not to mention the fact that a good majority of these women out here can’t even fuck to begin with and don’t know it, the juice is rarely worth the squeeze more times than most. The real reason men need to reach a higher level of consciousness and obtain Dick Control is because it gives a man the power he needs to restore the balance and take his proper place in the world. The way it is now, men have accepted this new definition of what a “man” has to offer and self definition always leads to self manifestation. The fact is, however, that you can’t be a leader if all you’re good for is fuckin’ your followers. Women are looking for men to be leaders, and the only place we’re trying to lead them to is the bedroom or the backseat (for the niggas still living at home). Dick Control is when a man develops the ability to control his natural animalistic urge to penetrate pussy so he can focus on matters of greater significance and importance. It’s when he realizes that not only is the pussy not going anywhere but there is literally too much of it to go around. It’s him knowing that he can’t fuck everything and being okay with that. When a man comes to this realization and is able to think for his dick as opposed to letting his dick think for him, only then does he posses the power to truly be considered a MAN. Dick Control is the difference between a man and a boy. You see it’s no secret that the pursuit, procurement and possession of pussy has always been man’s greatest downfall. A man in lust can be like Play Doh in the right woman’s hands – and that is beyond dangerous. Pussy has the power to start wars and destroy dynasties. The problem is when a man is ON, most logic and reason goes right out the window. They develop what I like to call “Vagina Vision” which is a form of tunnel vision that impairs their judgement and keeps them from focusing on anything else until they relieve that “pressure”. I call it the Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde effect. A quote that sums it up perfectly is :
“Niggas make terrible decisions everyday cause they have full nuts. That post cum moment of clarity is REAL” - @MrPerfect15.
What Peez was referring to is that vagina vision I mentioned a second ago. A full sack can make a man do things he never would’ve even considered doing post-nut. This goes back to what I said earlier about men making bad dick decisions. That nut you had to have can end up being a baby by a bitch you don’t wanna be with. Is it really worth it?
Now I’m sure most of the men reading this are fooling themselves into believing they have dick control but a good majority of them unfortunately don’t. They wake up and go to sleep thinking about pussy day after day. These are the same men that don’t believe a man can have a platonic relationship with a woman that he finds attractive. The same niggas unable to fathom the concept of having beautiful women in your life that you don’t have to sleep with. The same men that don’t understand how a man can flirt without the intentions of having sex. The same one’s that think all men cheat. The niggas that always walk up asking “Where the hoes at?” and the ones saying I’m wearing a cape right now, but probably knee deep in every woman that gives ‘em the time of day’s DM. This is for you my young Kings. As corny as it may sound, I believe that a real man isn’t measured by the number of women he can penetrate but by the number of people he can educate. A man is supposed to be a leader. Women are following our lead, so this generation of lost women is simply a product of the example set forth by a generation of lost men. All we want is ass and titties so in turn that’s all most of these women end up being good for. The cycle begins with us so it has to end with us. To clarify, I am not saying to stop getting at these hoes. I’m just simply saying that life is about balance. Too much focus on any one thing means that there are a number of other things that require an equal amount of focus and energy that are being neglected. Learn to control your dick and you will find that controlling everything else around you becomes much easier. I hope that you all will take heed to my words and begin to practice and hopefully perfect the art of Dick Control. Think about how easy it is to deal with a woman you have no intentions of having sex with and how you can control the situation that much more. Now aim to have that same control and composure over yourself in the presence of the baddest woman. Realize that you are a man and not a lamina (animal). Stay tuned for the next installment in this series entitled “Six Degrees of Penetration.” which deals with the common misconception that all pussy is to be sexed the same. Yall niggas stay blessed and as always feel free to follow